A love story is not about those who lost their heart but about those who find that sullen inhabitant who, when it is stumbled upon, means the body can fool no one, can fool nothing–not the wisdom of sleep or the habit of social graces. It is a consuming of oneself and the past. Michael Ondaatje
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Ernest Hemingway said, “A love story is not about those who lost their heart but about those who find that sullen inhabitant who, when it is stumbled upon, means the body can fool no one, can fool nothing—not the wisdom of sleep or the habit of social graces. It is a consuming of oneself and the past.” Hemingway suggests that the best love stories are closer to war stories, where things are black and white. The beauty of these stories lies in the fact that they are so simple–and yet so complicated. These are stories that don’t have you thinking that “Ohh! That person fell in love with this person because of that…” They are stories where people fall in love with each other because they are both similar to others they had loved before–in which case, it is about how they overcome the past and “find” their soul mate.

Source: The English Patient

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